Talk:Andy Kang/@comment-33525200-20171102021355/@comment-33576678-20171110124936

I personally try to respect someone's wishes when they want to be called a certain pronoun, even if I don't agree. I just try to be respectful in that way and I think everyone should do their best to not deliberately antagonize others.

That being said, yes there's a difference between sex and gender. No amount of surgical procedures or hormone therapy can change one's chromosome makeup. If someone has XX chromosomes they are a female. This is just a fact and no one should be attacked for stating this fact.

I can bleach my skin, dye my hair, wear bright colored contacts and ask everyone to refer to me as a white person but at the end of the day I'm still a black person with a lot of alterations and it's just a fact that I'll have to accept.

It would be selfish and unreasonable to demand that people call me something I'm not, just because I want to be that thing.

Again, while I encourage respect and sensitivity, there's really no logical argument against you seeing someone as what they truly are, and referring to them in that way.

I sound wishy washy but that's because I'm trying to point out this undeniable truth in a sensitive way.